On Not Being Someone Else"Miller is charming company, both humanly and intellectually. He is onto something: the theme of unled lives, and the fascinating idea that fiction intensifies the sense of provisionality that attends all lives. An extremely attractive book." James Wood "A compendium of expressions of wonder over what might have been Swept up in our real lives, we quickly forget about the unreal ones. Still, there will be moments when, for good or ill, we feel